But why is this being turned into a conversation about me rather than the importance of having the right to block the profile in its entirety? to reduce the amount of bullying that occurs when people are allowed to accesses at will. and entirely out of context. there is so much info that is NOT collected. why the person dropped out like real world issues network losses etc.
Now that Iâm getting a little more facts I have come to the conclusion that you where the bully.
It is not required to use a repair kit in a raid. I personally NEVER use them.
So, what happened was⌠you got pissed that this guy didnât use a repair kit, then went out of your way and tried to shame this person in public chat because you thought you were wronged in some way. Your intent was to make that person regret their actions in front of everyoneâŚ
Sounds like a text book bully to me.
If you did not intend to Shame this person then you could have sent a private message.
Even in a private message you would still be wrong, since that person didnât do anything.
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There it is again.
You were treated poorly by others in your past, so now you expect everyone to do the same to you. Is that it? You also apparently think itâs everyone elseâs responsibility to make exceptions for your personal issues and magically know what those issues are.
If they donât, theyâre âableistsâ and âpart of the problem.â
Considering youâve shared your issues repeatedly online with a bunch of absolute strangers - and I repeat ONLINE - I imagine there arenât many people youâve encountered who donât know your issues.
Adding to this mess, youâve not once acknowledged the issues others have mentioned that they face.
Youâve also not asked what issues others have. Youâve not asked about THEIR past.
Youâre so breathtakingly wrapped up in your own self, youâve become a wrecking ball dumping your baggage at the feet of others and making them responsible for your behavior.
Youâve had it rough? Okay. Sorry about that.
Did you know thereâs a dude on the forum who held his wife as she died? Thereâs a dude who was raped as a child. Another who is an amputee. Another with literal physical damage to his brain. At least four who suffered apparently pretty brutal child abuse⌠And thatâs just what I know. Most of that was learned through private messages. Only one was shared publicly, and that was only after being promted.
Iâll leave my own menagerie of miseries of the conversation.
My point is everyone had had it rough. EVERYONE. Youâre not an exception because you were âseverely bulliedâ and deaf. Your the exception because you lay that at the feet of others and apparently expect them to bear the burden for you.
It is an honor to beat the burden of others⌠Not an obligation.
Youâve been given solid advice on this thread.
Set your profile to private.
Ignore genchat.
Grow a thicker skin.
Youâll be happier of you do that.
There is no advice thatâll give you your hearing or erase your past. Itâs up to you to differentiate your future from the past.
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Dude, for as someone who goes on and on about bullying, itâs amazing you donât realize youâre doing it.
Because in almost every post, you go on and on about how YOUR past justifies your crappy behavior.
You made the thread about you! 
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nobody⌠iâm just kidding 
they probably will make it private for everything at some point/other games you canât see their profileâŚ
butâŚ
there is no info to bully anyone about in any profile/here on this forum or in gameâŚ
everyone has the same thing/patches ect woopdeedoâŚ
and about leaving matchesâŚSo what! i do it when i want to do it,comân n stop me!
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first off everyone gets a free repair. its NOT from their personal stock. this is the repair he refused to use as retaliation to team for what ever reason.
Calling someone out for anti social behavior is NOT bullying. I genuinely wanted to know why he felt he had to sabotage the team like that. for no reason. AFTER he chose to go solo mustang on team getting himself killed early. where no backup was available because he ran way ahead of team, and had all the bots agro to him. outside of even long range fire. and I tried to provide that in the gap that was available. when a bot would cross said gap. you you still donât have all the facts. your choosing to make something out that was NOT there. JUST to redirect the issue from what needs to change. ALLOWING full privacy control over profile.
I STATED I COULD NOT SEND THEM PRIVATE MESSAGE THEY HAD MY PSN BLOCKED. I STATED THAT WAS TRYING TO GET GEN CHAT TO RELAY TO HIM. PRIOR TO YOUR REPLY. CLAIMING I SHOULD OF WHISPERED HIM. YOUR DELIBERATELY TRYING TO OBFUSCATE THE ISSUE. TO MAKE THE VICTIM AT FAULT. CLASSIC BULLYING BEHAVIOR.
rough I never said he couldnât play or partisipate. etc. the intent of bullies to to exclude those they target. to alienate them. I was trying to get this person to be part of the team. NOT exclude them. for the benefit of the group to which he was a part of.
you remind me of the worst bully in my life who ended their life in 11th grade. he behaved alot like how your doing it in this chat thread. try to redirect away from own anti social conduct.
I believe the number is greater. Like I said before, I rarely miss with my blocks.
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Youâre right.
I only counted threads.
I think I was even wrong there.
If you count actual posts⌠Yikes.
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your only suggesting exclusion and donât even realize it. your telling me I canât be part of the conversation etc. THERE IS NOTHING TO BE HAPPY ABOUT REGARDING BEING EXCLUDED.
Apparently, youâre excluded from conversations - not because of your hearing loss - but Iâm guessing - because itâs behavior youâre exhibiting here.
Some self reflection might be in order.
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You literally trolled a guy who had already blocked you⌠Then brought the issue here to convince us youâre the victim.
Then, when we start thinking maybe you were at fault - which is pretty amazing for us to do since youâre the one telling the story - you start attacking us.
Câmon⌠This is put-on, right? This whole thread is a joke, isnât it? Are you really Muppet playing a character? Good prank. You really had me there for a secondâŚ
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and there it is ladies and gentlemenâŚ" I was calling them out"
well⌠you know what they say?..
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Dont be a coward. Flaunt that failure.
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i had that same thought as i contemplated hitting mute
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This is a toxic cesspool perpetuated by the very guy crying victim.
For the love of all things good, Charlie, please lock this topic.
Cant believe i just typed thatâŚ^
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This denotes your naivety and lightness in considering the problem of others.
I donât have anything to hide either but for this I donât exclude that other people may have been bullied and prefer to remain anonymous.
I could tell you a lot more about how visible information is used but I think itâs useless to talk about it any more.
So explain how someone can be bullied by video game information?
You do not have to read any texts.
You do not need to reply to any texts.
You can block anyone you want.
Video games donât mater.
So with all that you have to be a willing participant.
It takes two people to be bullied, in real life you just canât turn it off. But on the internet it disappears in the click of a button.
Simple.
The bottom line is that if you donât want to share your information with others you MUST be free to do so.
For example,
in my experience, some people are looking for info on players to classify them within the group or clan, Iâm not just not talking only about bullying, Iâm talking in general for the use that can be made of it.
what I assert is the freedom to share what you want, of course i donât talk about developers but just other players .
Well, after 60 years old be kids should be great trust me
There are a few of them on here Roopull who does this, most of them have letters for profile pictures, Trying to interact with them in a way that isnât to their liking is a waste, ignoring/muting is a better option, I did it with the K fellow and heâs still in time out!
What could be said about more than just this tread on this forum
Bullies claiming to be the victim, now thatâs a tradition I wish died out but hasnât
That ability has almost been completely lost
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